Well, my answer to all that is that he was blessed to have met you!
Like you said, its the God in him that is the attractor, because God just gave him a different gift...all the parts of the body are important and from what I am reading on your blog you are "doing your part" in spades! ... and THAT is what makes you every bit as special and someone to be "met".
And I, for one, am glad God let me "meet" you today ... through your blog anyway :-)